Consideration

As I age gracefully, I realize my list of desires and needs that I want in a spouse is much shorter than it was in my 20s. One recent thing I added to my list for my future spouse is consideration. 

Consideration - careful thought, something that is to be kept in mind in making a decision, evaluating facts, esteem, thoughtfulness of others

As I’m thinking of traits I want in a spouse I try to ensure I’m practicing the traits today and so I thought of my most important and valuable relationship - my relationship with God if I was considerate there.

I know I can’t physically see God because he’s not a man - but there are ways I can consider him.

The Bible says:

“Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.” Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭10‬ ‭KJV‬‬

and 

“We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭16‬:‭9‬ ‭NLT‬‬

As I was journaling this morning (yes you can write your prayers) - I wrote: “God I consider your will and plans for my life.”

For my relationship with God, consideration means that even when I have plans and ideas I ensure they align with his plans for my life. If our plans don't align, consideration for me means God's plans prevails.

My Practical Way of Considering God

I communicate with God in prayer. When I pray I share my plans and ask him his thoughts. Then I sit still for a moment and look for ways for him to confirm it within me through his word (the Bible), dreams, others that I trust, inner knowing, peace and etc…

But the main thing for me is before I take my plans and or ideas to anyone else I consider God’s thoughts and will on a decision. 

Do you have anyone you consider in your plans? 

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